Resolutions for new year -
na asha, ashayam, dream, dream project. new year resolutions enti? friends ni manamu adige common question.
adhi cheyali, idhi cheyali,indulo improve avali, aa habit marchukovali, etc, etc. year end lo chusukunte, resolutions ni amalu lo pettina sankya janalu chala thakkuva. cheppukodaniki baguntayi, so cheppesthene better. work out ayinda, happy. kaledante, naku time dorakaledu ee year motham antu sakulu cheppochu.
About Software life -
Husband wife lalo okaru Software employee aithe adhi DURADHRUSHTAM.
Husband wife lu iddaru software employees aithe adhi DOURBHAGYAM.
Software downfall anedi start ayindi. inka public ni accomodate chese shakthi IT ki ledu. Development projects
anevi thaggipothunnayi. etu chusina, project la maintenance support le. oka project lo 10 mandi unte, 6 nelallo
project konchem stabilise ayyaka 2 members tho bandi laginche paristhithi anni chotla. Unrealistic expectations
from people.
SALES TEAM - Project elagaina mana company ki thesuku ravali, dani valla elanti ibbandulunna maku anavasaram. tharuvatha aa project success ayinda, atakekkinda anedi maku anavasaram. ma job enti ante, project thechama leda. account/company ki oka 10 rupayalu chupinchama. ma jeethalu maku vachaya..
oka padi samvatsarala pilla vadini, reyy oka 5 anthasthula meediki ee 100 cement basthalanu paiki thesuku po, neeku iche time mathram 40 minutes ee..ani ante.
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adhi vadi valla avuthunda? same aa pillavadi paristhithi software engineer di. Sales team vallu teliyaka oppukunna oppandaniki, vallu promise chesina unrealistic targets ni meet avadam kosam samvatsaram motham, family ki dooranga, friends ki dooranga, saraina thindi lekunda, oka maata muchata lekunda, chuttala important occasions ki kuda velle paristhithi lekunda, asalu pillalu puttina, pedda vallu chanipoyina, vallanu chudalante weekends kosam wait cheyalsina dourbhagyapu sthithi,,,weekend vachina kachithanga velthamani ledu, pani antha oka kolikki vache daka danni vodilela leni paristhithi. office lo software engineer la mokam
lo okari mokham lo chiru navvu undadu. prathi okaru edo oka samasya tho badha padevalle. company vadu iche verusanikkayala kosam, january nundi April varaku ...ee appraisal lo naku ee rating vasthundo, nannu company lo unchutharo ledo, ani ucha posukuntu brathike jeevitham. poni adbuthanga pani chese vadu emaina sukapaduthunna ante adhi ledu, ne performance client ki nachaledanta..ne meeda negative feedback vachindi,,antu performance feedback. Thu brathuku, na samvathsaram jeevitham motham office lone gadipanu,
kanisam evariki clue kuda rani high priority request lanu, investigate chesi find out chesanu, oka matalo cheppalante na sarvasvam kolpoyi..hard work chesthe, 1 year tharuvatha na meeda remark idha..antu badha/kopam rendu unna oka udvegam. asalu oka samvathsaram kinda parichayam ayina girlfriend ee,,ne kanna aa abbayi baga matladathadu antene manam digest kolemu. alantidi, samvathsaram motham
job ee prananga brathikina manaku, mana performance meeda criticise chesthe, antha kanna dourbhagyapu sthithi inkokati untunda? evado foreign deshapu vadiki manam nachaka pothe, adhi mana thappa? mana english vadiki artham kakapothe adhi mana thappa? emo ee india vadu develop ayithe, na career pothundi ani bad feedback ichademo? edaithenem, ikkada nashtapothundi india software engineer lu.
Software engineer lu ippudu evarini chusina, morning 8 ki office start ayithe, evening 9 ki kani intiki rani paristhithi. Husband Wife okaritho okaru kalisi unde hours chala thakkuva. office lo unde colleagues ee,,,friends ayina, relatives ayina. edo matladatham kani..mother father lanu kuda oka year lo chuse sandarbalu maha ante 12 lope, i mean month ki oka sari. malli stability leni jeevitham. oka roju chennai antaru, oka roju Delhi antaru,,kadu kadu Sweden vellali, urgent uu, vellakapothe adhi idhi. intlo ne family ee vidhanga
suffer avuthundi management thesukune ee sudden decisions tho anedi evadiki avasaram ledu. poni na vyakthigatha jeevitham effect avuthundi ani edaina oka mukka noru lesthe, you are not behaving in a professional manner antu mana meedike ekkutharu. jeevithantham office lone unde oka manishiki pellam pillalu avasarama. aa mathram daniki pelli chesukovadam enduku. tharuvatha badha padadam enduku. poni delhi ki ponu, gadidi guddu ki ponu, ani oka chote kurchunte, career lo ne contemporaries lo chala venukapadipoyavu ani criticize chese Society.
oka basic thing antante, 100000 mandi developers/freshers untaru. oka 1000 mandi project leads untaru. oka 50 members service delivery mangers untaru. oka 5 members vertical/horizontal heads untaru. okadu CEO untadu. ante career lo grow ayye sariki situations entha narrow avuthunnayo manam chudali, Personal life, professional life ni equal proportion lo balance chesina manishi software industry lo ledu. India ke superstar, chala peaceful life maintain chesina Hrithik roshan ee personal life ni balance cheyaleka poyadu. ika software engineer lamu, manamentha. competition prapancham lo, prathi vishayam lo society ki bhayapade paristhithi. neeku thakkuva jeetham vasthe oka badha, pakkodiki ekkuva jeetham vasthe adho badha, oka 10 years experiance vachaka nuvvu inka developer gane unte adhoka badha, onsite vellaka pothe oka badha, velthe akkada sarigga perform cheyaka pothe oka badha, family ki dooranga unnam ani oka badha, ee pani chesina
society na gurinchi emanukuntundo ani badha, poni evaremanu kunte nakenti ani pawan kalyan la undama ante,
manam software engineer lamu, manaku antha scene ledaye. okka peli chesukuntene, wife ni eppudo kani okasari chuse paristhithi, inka mugguru pellalanu em maintain chesthamu, viddoram kakapothe.
inni daridrala madhyalo, office politics. tamil vallu inkokarini paiki ranivaru. okadu eduguthunnadu ante vadini ee vidhanga naina thokkeyalane thapana, aathram. group lu. edho pedda YSRCP, telugu desam party la madhya vyram laaga. mana brathukule anthantha mathram ra nayana, edho pani chesukoni intiki poyinattu undalira babu, ante,,,office nundi intiki poye dari madhyalo..ante Hitec city nundi Dilsukhnagar way madhyalo la, ITPL nundi BTM ki velle dari madhyalo ee time annamaata, vadu alantodu kada, adhi alantidi kada, vadu ila chesadu, adhi ila chesindi, malli office gole. naku chithranga anipinchedentante,,ee type panulu manam (ante software engineer) lamu mathrame chesthama, lekapothe anni industries lalo kuda yavvaralu ilane untaya..
innintiki thodu, health darunanga kharab avuthundi. intha tension unte, janalu cigarrette thagaka chasthara. ee software office mundaina chudandi, cigarrete lu ammevadu, minimum rojuki 5000 kanna ekkuva profit ee sampadhisthadu. asalu food thinakunda cigarrete mathrame thaguthu brathike candidate lu unna ekaika industry software industry. oka pakka office lo tension, family life lo tension, ika janalu thagadaniki alavatu padaka chasthara. Deepak, ma friend eppudu antu untadu, RP manamu ante abbayilamu tension vasthe
cigarette thaguthamu, mandu kodathamu, sare badha unna oka full kodithe,,kanisam oka full kodithe, nidra ayina paduthundi,,papam adavalla sangathenti? ani. naku navochindi. kani vadi question correct. idhi evarina mana lady fans ni adagali, vallu em chestharu, jeevitham chukkalu chupisthunte, ontari thanani pogutukodaniki, software life chupisthunna narakanni, meeru ela handle chesthunnaru ani?
Software life nundi ippatike chala mandi vere career ki move avuthunnaru. kondaru business vaipu move avuthunte, kondaru lecturer ga, inka vere vati paina. idhi chala healthy step, which is being taken by people. endukante next recession which is going to come in near future, it is nothing but going to be a DISASTER for software engineers. anduke, make hay while the sun shines. Software entha money ichindo
danni dochesukoni, ventane baita padali. idhi ela ante share market laga. profits lo unnapude SELL cheseyali, kadu inka profit vasthundi ani athyasaku poyama, kolkoleni debba thesthundi software life.
Life anedi bhagavanthudu ichindi santhoshanga brathakadaniki. anthe kani jeevithantham office lo computer mundu kurchuni idhe jeevitham anukodaniki kadu, inka enno unnayi. Software life lo unna, nenu happy ga unna, naku complaints levu, regrets levu anna vyakthi naku na 6 1/2 years lo tharasa padaledu.
prathi okkari mansulo bhayam, repu na job untundo ooduthundo ani bhayam. Bhayam tho sachipothunnaru janalu.
Society -
Power, Money, Control, Happiness, Family, Respect. ivi unna rojullo manamu cheyalsina first pani, mana kallu netthi meediki ekkinchukokapovadam. kallu nethiki ekkayo, aa roje ne pathanam start avuthundi. kallu nethi kekkithe manamu chese first pani - Notiki vachina matalu antamu. vatini eduti varu ela receive chesukuntaro pattinchukomu. teliso, teliyako...aa vedilo mana balalu, balaheenathalu manaku society ki cheppesthamu. Society elantidante, nuvvu paiki edigina/eduguthunna rojullantini, chala patience tho bharisthundi. alanti rojullo manamu janalaku uchitha salahalu isthu untamu. nenu ila chesanu, ala chesanu.ee decision thesukunnano, ivala america lo unnanu, monna london poyamu, gajulu konukunnamu, matti mashanam ani. nuvvu chala great antu, aa kshnam vallu mana mundu ane matalaku tempt ayyi avi nijame ane brahmalo untamu. Kani adhi
suddha thapu. baitiki janalu cheppe maata okati untundi, lopala anukune maata okati untundi. manam evening edaina restaurant ki veltham friends gang tho. eppudaina observe chesara, aa party ki rani okaro iddaro untaru. meeru ganuka keen ga observe chesthe, aa iddari gurinchi, mana table meeda unna manam 10 members, chala negative ga matladatham. nijamena?
Nuvvu kina padipothunna roju, ne samasyalu public ki pedda entertainment avuthayi. observe cheyandi, meeru onsite velle roju, nenu onsite velthunna repu morning na flight ani cheppandi, oka common email lo, friends andariki. meeru flight ekke varaku, maha ante okato, rendo phone lu untayi. adhe meeku personal problem undi ano, professional problem undi ano....edho oka medium dwara telisthe..idhe common email lo unna friends andariki.. ika chudandi...vellandariki dance le lopala, koya dance lu. meeru nammaru minimum oka 10 days
varaku mee phone motha mogiddhi anthe. prathi okkadiki aathramu telusukovalani, ne jeevitham ela sanka nakipoyindo telusukovalani,,,asalu eduti vyakthi evaru, athani styaki vyakthi ki oka suggestion iche antha scene naku unda...ane alochana evadiki radu. prathi okkadu aa time ki nene mahesh babu anukodame. ante, oka vyakthi nashanam ayipothenemo antha santhosham, adhe manishi jeevitham lo eduguthunadu ante
emo edupu.
arey ivala vadi birthday ra, wish chesava, ante,,,aa evening varaku phone chesthale ani response. arey ,, manodi job poyindanta ra..ante avuna,,,ani nuvvu phone petteyi,,, ani marukshanam,, phone chestharu, eyy,,job poindantaga,,,nijamena,,
manavathvam anedi ledu.swartham, swartham, swartahm. nenu bagundali, nene bagundali, pakka vadu nashanam avvali, vadi family nashanam avali.prathi okkadidi idhi alochana. oka manchi pani chese appreciate chese gunam ledu evari daggara, oka 10 rupayalu danam chese gunam ledu. nenu, nenu, na,,,savandira,,,
oka road meeda endalo adukkune oka musali avida, kosam oka full meals thesukoni aameku ivandi. appudunna feeling, nuvvu kick ekkentha varaku thagi, biryani thinna rani happiness isthundi. kavalante okasari,,
oka roju try chesi chudandi. open challenge.
society ni nenu ippudu em cheyali ani adigavu ani ante, aa roju nuvvu chanipoyinatte lekka, idhi thumb rule. Society ni ippudu nenu em cheyali ani adigavu ani ante, aa roju nuvvu chanipoyinatte. Julayi cinema lo Trivikram chepthadu - Jeevitham lo em cheyali ani eppudu evarini adagaku, nekantu oka clarity undali. ivi animuthyalu. Trivikram kalam nundi jaluvarini adbuthallo idhoka machu thunaka. ilantivi kotlunnayi. Atharintiki daredi movie lo kuda oka wonderful dialogue untundi - "Chi, ne valla veedu kuda naku cheppe vadu ayyadu ani", idhi correct. manam eppudu mana valla valla thala dhinchu kune paristhithi vasthe, appudu road meeda poye kukka ki kuda manamu chulakana avuthanu. adhe movie inko wonderful dialogue. Prathi okkaru gurthu pettukovalsina vishyam - "Jeetham iche vadipi joke lu vesthe,jeevitham ilane thalakrindulu ayipothundi". idhi akshara sathyam. ee okka vishayam gurthu pettukondi, prathi roju lechi napudu, meeku jeevitham lo etuvanti kashtam eduravadu. nenu guarantee. abbo, society emanukuntundo ani alochinchadam start chesama, ika munduku vellalemu. Life ante King la brathakali, ledante kasthtam ra abbayi. mari King la brathakali ante, krushi, pattudala, aninti kante important DISCIPLINE undali. entha etthuku edigina, manamu nilabadina nela nu marchi pokudadu.good times, bad times ivi sine wave lantivi. ivala nenu thopu ni kada, life long ilane untanu ante kudaradu raja, prathi roju needi kadu. okaroju pathanam anedi vasthundi, kashtam ruchi chusthavu. anduke eppudaina disaster plan anedi okati undali. Decision making thappu pothe, ela..how ane alochane decision thesukune appude cheseyali. appude manam anukunnadi konchem atu itu ayina,....consequences antha worst undavu.
Husband Wife relationship -
idhi chala sensitive subject. so opinion expressed is purely my personal.
mee couple ganuka software industry lo unte, it is high time, you must change your career. Software industry anedi, marraige life ni progressive ga saganivadu.
oka example thesukundam. husband emo america project (work time - evening 9 to early morning 3) ..wife pani chese client emo australian (morning 7 to evening 3). idhi possible scenario, ika cheppandi, vallinkem kapuram chestharo. vadi project lo tension lo, eeme project lo tension le, intlo vanta chese opika evariki undadu, kalisi unde time thakkuva. aame project lo vishayalu vine interest veedike undadu, veedi project lo jarige sollu vine interest aa pillaki undadu. ee madhyalo..vella parents ..valla parents ragada.
okkariki okarante padadu. pusku mani, aa pilla,,me abbayi entha sampadhisthunnado, nenu antha sampadhisthunna, nenu enduku ee pani cheyali ani ganuka, attha tho andhi ani ante, khatham. cinema ayipoyinatte. edo okati jaragali, ayithe aa abbayi valla parents ni vodileyali, lekapothe aa pillanu vodileyali.
inka oka adugu mundukesi, aa pilla same maata moguditho, nenu neekanna dentlo thakuva,, nenenduku neeku Tea pettali ante, ika story ki THE END. ivanni possible scenarios ee, prasthutha paristhithullo., okapudu ante,,idhi pelli, deeni goppa thanam idhi, oka age vachaka bharya ku bhartha, bhartha ki bharya mathrame jeevithantham thodu untaru, antu manchi matalu cheppe oka naluguru pedda manushulu undevaru. ippudu mana youth....23 24 samvathsarallo,,,asalu jeevitham ante enti, kastalu ante ela untayi ani teliyani vayasulo, okkokariki oke nelalo sumaru 3 lakshalu chupisthunna software job lu. nuvvendira naku cheppedi, ane attitude chupisthunna ee generation abbayilu, ammayilu.
naku 40 years vachina tharuvatha em jarigithe nakenti, nakipudu aa alochana ledu. husband cheppina mata vinalsina avasaram naku ledu - ani ammayi, wife ni nachinattu undalsina avasaram naku ledu - ani abbayi. ee husband wife ni chusina - lack of maturity, lack of awareness. ika vellem kapuram chestharu.
compromise, adjustment ee nature lekapothe, oka iddaru friends ee friendship tho melaga leru. alantidi,,oka pilla..oka pillodu, veru veru places, veru veru lifestyle lu brathikiina vallu, iddarilo adjustment,compromise
ane nature lekapothe aa relationship ela work out avuthundi raja. ika software dampathulu case lo, noru musukoni divorce thesukodam better. leda career shift avadam.
nenu paina chepinavi negative consequences. andaru alane unaru ani kadu na feeling. happy ga couples ni ganuka meeru observe chesthe, vallalo meeku kanipinche 2 qualities,,,Awareness and Maturity.
na friend Deepak cheppina oka manchi maata tho mugisthanu - Confidence, Commitment and exposure. ivi moodu unte, evaraina enthati goal ni ayina achieve chestharu.
manasulo anukunnadi mathrame janalaku cheppu. sollu muchatlu, acting lu janalaki cheppi edutivallani namminche prayathnam cheyaku. endukante web media anedi perigipoindi, auto vadu kuda, movie review chuse, theater ki velthunna rojulu ivi. nee extra laku, acting laku padipodaniki evaru leru ikkada.
build up isthe padipoye ammayilu ipudu ee college lo kuda leru. sangathi gurthu pettuko balaraju. pedda vallani gouravinchu, chinna vallanu preminchu. success vasthe dani oka reference ga pettukoni, inko hundred success lu ela sadhinchalo anubhavam thechukovali.kallu ee kshanam lo kuda kallu netthiki ekkakudadu.
maata jarakudadu. pakka vyakthi gurinchi cheduga matladadavodhu. evadu, ee pani enduku chesthado, vadiki thappa evariki teliyadu. so accept people for who they are. antha nachaka pothe, vodileseyali vallani, valatho unna relatonship ni. adabbayi sangathi.
Friends, Wish you a very Happy and Prosperous New Year!
Kindest of regards,
Rajendra
